Death and Its Rulings
27 hadiths
Do not curse the dead, for they have reached the result of what they have done
‘Ā’ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reported: The Prophet (may Allah’s peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Do not curse the dead, for they have reached the result of what they have done."
You praised this, so Paradise has been affirmed for him, and you dispraised this, so Hell has been affirmed for him. You are Allah's witnesses on earth
Anas ibn Mālik (may Allah be pleased with him) reported: They (the Companions) passed by a funeral procession and praised the deceased. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "It has been affirmed." Then they passed by another funeral procession but dispraised the deceased, so the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "It has been affirmed." ‘Umar ibn al-Khattāb (may Allah be pleased with him) asked: "What has been affirmed?" He replied: "You praised this, so Paradise has been affirmed for him, and you dispraised this, so Hell has been affirmed for him. You are Allah's witnesses on earth."
If Allah decreed that someone should die in a certain land, He makes for him a reason to go there
Matar ibn ‘Ukāmis reported: The Messenger of Allah (may Allah’s peace and blessings be upon him) said: "If Allah decreed that someone should die in a certain land, He makes for him a reason to go there."
من كان آخرُ كلامهِ لا إله إلا اللهُ دخل الجنة
عن معاذِ بن جبل قال: قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم: "من كان آخرُ كلامهِ لا إله إلا اللهُ دخل الجنة".
To Allah belongs what He takes, and to Him belongs what He gives, and for everything He sets a specific term. So she should have patience and seek the reward from Allah
Usāmah ibn Zayd ibn Hārithah (may Allah be pleased with him) reported: The Prophet's daughter sent for him to come over because her son was dying. The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) sent her the greeting of peace and this message: "To Allah belongs what He takes, and to Him belongs what He gives, and for everything He sets a specific term. So she should have patience and seek the reward from Allah." She sent back urging him to come to her. So he, along with Sa‘d ibn ‘Ubādah, Mu‘ādh ibn Jabal, Ubayy ibn Ka‘b, Zayd ibn Thābit and other men (may Allah be pleased with them) went. The boy was given to the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) and his breath was disturbed in his chest, which made the eyes of the Messenger of Allah overflow with tears. Thereupon, Sa‘d said: "O Messenger of Allah, what is that?" He said: "That is mercy which Allah, the Exalted, puts in the hearts of His slaves." In another version: "In the hearts of those He wills of His slaves. Indeed, Allah is merciful only to those of His slaves who are merciful."
Indeed, patience is at the first shock
Anas ibn Mālik (may Allah be pleased with him) reported: The Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) passed by a woman who was weeping beside a grave. He said to her: "Fear Allah and be patient." She said to him: "Leave me alone, for you have not been afflicted with a calamity like mine." She did not recognize him. She was later informed that he was the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him). So, she went to his house and there she did not find any doormen. Then she said to him: "I did not recognize you." He said: "Indeed, patience is at the first shock." According to another narration: "She was crying over a son of hers.”
Anyone loves to meet Allah, Allah loves to meet him; and anyone dislikes to meet Allah, Allah dislikes to meet him
‘Ā'ishah (may Allah be pleased with her) reported that the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Anyone loves to meet Allah, Allah loves to meet him; and anyone dislikes to meet Allah, Allah dislikes to meet him." I said: "O Messenger of Allah, does this mean the aversion to death, for we all hate death?" He said: "It is not that, but when a believer is given (glad) tidings of the mercy of Allah, His Pleasure, and His Paradise, he loves to meet Allah, and Allah also loves to meet him. When a disbeliever is given (bad) tidings of the punishment of Allah and His wrath that shall afflict him, he dislikes to meet Allah and Allah also dislikes to meet him."
Allah admits to Paradise any Muslim whose goodness is testified to by four people
Abu al-Aswad reported: I came to Madīnah and sat with ‘Umar ibn al-Khattāb (may Allah be pleased with him). A funeral passed by and the deceased was lauded. ‘Umar said: 'Guaranteed.' Then another funeral passed by and the deceased was lauded, whereupon ‘Umar again said: 'Guaranteed.' Then a third funeral passed by and the deceased was dispraised, whereupon ‘Umar said: 'Guaranteed.' I asked: "O Leader of the Believers, what is guaranteed?" He said: "I said what the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: 'Allah admits to Paradise any Muslim whose goodness is testified to by four people.' We said: 'What about three people?' He replied in the affirmative. We said: 'What about two?' He replied in the affirmative. Then we did not ask him about one person.
No one dies and they stand over him crying and saying, 'O what a great man he was! O how respectful he was,' except that two angels are appointed for him to poke him, saying: Were you like that?
Abu Mūsa (may Allah be pleased with him) reported that the Messenger (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "No one dies and they stand over him crying and saying, 'O what a great man he was! O how respectful he was,' except that two angels are appointed for him to poke him, saying: 'Were you like that?'"
إن الله عز وجل لم يهلك قومًا فيجعل لهم نسلًا
عَنْ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ مَسْعُودٍ قَالَ: قَالَتْ أُمُّ حَبِيبَةَ: اللهُمَّ مَتِّعْنِي بِزَوْجِي رَسُولِ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ، وَبِأَبِي أَبِي سُفْيَانَ، وَبِأَخِي مُعَاوِيَةَ، فَقَالَ لَهَا رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: «إِنَّكِ سَأَلْتِ اللهَ لِآجَالٍ مَضْرُوبَةٍ، وَآثَارٍ مَوْطُوءَةٍ، وَأَرْزَاقٍ مَقْسُومَةٍ، لَا يُعَجِّلُ شَيْئًا مِنْهَا قَبْلَ حِلِّهِ، وَلَا يُؤَخِّرُ مِنْهَا شَيْئًا بَعْدَ حِلِّهِ، وَلَوْ سَأَلْتِ اللهَ أَنْ يُعَافِيَكِ مِنْ عَذَابٍ فِي النَّارِ، وَعَذَابٍ فِي الْقَبْرِ لَكَانَ خَيْرًا لَكِ» قَالَ فَقَالَ رَجُلٌ: يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ الْقِرَدَةُ وَالْخَنَازِيرُ، هِيَ مِمَّا مُسِخَ؟ فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: «إِنَّ اللهَ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ لَمْ يُهْلِكْ قَوْمًا، أَوْ يُعَذِّبْ قَوْمًا، فَيَجْعَلَ لَهُمْ نَسْلًا، وَإِنَّ الْقِرَدَةَ وَالْخَنَازِيرَ كَانُوا قَبْلَ ذَلِكَ».
أما إنه من أهل النار
عَنْ سَهْلِ بْنِ سَعْدٍ السَّاعِدِيِّ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ: أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ، التَقَى هُوَ وَالمُشْرِكُونَ، فَاقْتَتَلُوا، فَلَمَّا مَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ إِلَى عَسْكَرِهِ، وَمَالَ الآخَرُونَ إِلَى عَسْكَرِهِمْ، وَفِي أَصْحَابِ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ رَجُلٌ، لاَ يَدَعُ لَهُمْ شَاذَّةً وَلاَ فَاذَّةً إِلَّا اتَّبَعَهَا يَضْرِبُهَا بِسَيْفِهِ، فَقَالَ: مَا أَجْزَأَ مِنَّا اليَوْمَ أَحَدٌ كَمَا أَجْزَأَ فُلاَنٌ، فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: «أَمَا إِنَّهُ مِنْ أَهْلِ النَّارِ»، فَقَالَ رَجُلٌ مِنَ القَوْمِ: أَنَا صَاحِبُهُ، قَالَ: فَخَرَجَ مَعَهُ كُلَّمَا وَقَفَ وَقَفَ مَعَهُ، وَإِذَا أَسْرَعَ أَسْرَعَ مَعَهُ، قَالَ: فَجُرِحَ الرَّجُلُ جُرْحًا شَدِيدًا، فَاسْتَعْجَلَ المَوْتَ، فَوَضَعَ نَصْلَ سَيْفِهِ بِالأَرْضِ، وَذُبَابَهُ بَيْنَ ثَدْيَيْهِ، ثُمَّ تَحَامَلَ عَلَى سَيْفِهِ، فَقَتَلَ نَفْسَهُ، فَخَرَجَ الرَّجُلُ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ، فَقَالَ: أَشْهَدُ أَنَّكَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ، قَالَ: «وَمَا ذَاكَ؟» قَالَ: الرَّجُلُ الَّذِي ذَكَرْتَ آنِفًا أَنَّهُ مِنْ أَهْلِ النَّارِ، فَأَعْظَمَ النَّاسُ ذَلِكَ، فَقُلْتُ: أَنَا لَكُمْ بِهِ، فَخَرَجْتُ فِي طَلَبِهِ، ثُمَّ جُرِحَ جُرْحًا شَدِيدًا، فَاسْتَعْجَلَ المَوْتَ، فَوَضَعَ نَصْلَ سَيْفِهِ فِي الأَرْضِ وَذُبَابَهُ بَيْنَ ثَدْيَيْهِ ثُمَّ تَحَامَلَ عَلَيْهِ فَقَتَلَ نَفْسَهُ، فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ عِنْدَ ذَلِكَ: «إِنَّ الرَّجُلَ لَيَعْمَلُ عَمَلَ أَهْلِ الجَنَّةِ، فِيمَا يَبْدُو لِلنَّاسِ، وَهُوَ مِنْ أَهْلِ النَّارِ، وَإِنَّ الرَّجُلَ لَيَعْمَلُ عَمَلَ أَهْلِ النَّارِ، فِيمَا يَبْدُو لِلنَّاسِ، وَهُوَ مِنْ أَهْلِ الجَنَّةِ».
إن هذه القبور مملوءة ظلمة على أهلها، وإن الله عز وجل ينورها لهم بصلاتي عليهم
عن أبي هريرة أن امرأة سوداء كانت تَقُمُّ المسجد -أو شابًّا-، ففقدها رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم، فسأل عنها -أو عنه- فقالوا: مات. قال: «أفلا كنتم آذنتموني» قال: فكأنهم صغروا أمرها -أو أمره- فقال: «دلوني على قبره» فدلوه، فصلى عليها، ثم قال: «إن هذه القبور مملوءة ظلمة على أهلها، وإن الله عز وجل ينورها لهم بصلاتي عليهم».
Remind those of you who are dying of: La ilāha illallāh (There is no god but Allah)
Abu Sa‘īd al-Khudri (may Allah be pleased with him) reported: The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: "Remind those of you who are dying of: La ilāha illallāh (There is no god but Allah)."
ألم تَرَوا الإنسانَ إذا مات شخصَ بصرُه؟
عن أبي هريرة قال: قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم: «ألم تَرَوا الإنسانَ إذا مات شخصَ بصرُه؟» قالوا: بلى، قال: «فذلك حين يَتبع بصرُه نفْسَه».
إن الميت يعذب في قبره ببكاء أهله
عن عروة قال: ذُكِرَ عند عائشة رضي الله عنها أن ابن عمر رفع إلى النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم: «إن الميت يعذب في قبره ببكاء أهله» فقالت: وَهَلَ، إنما قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم: «إنه ليعذب بخطيئته وذنبه، وإن أهله ليبكون عليه الآن»، قالت: وذاك مثل قوله: إن رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم قام على القليب وفيه قتلى بدر من المشركين، فقال لهم ما قال: «إنهم ليسمعون ما أقول» إنما قال: «إنهم الآن ليعلمون أن ما كنت أقول لهم حق»، ثم قَرَأَتْ {إنك لا تسمع الموتى} [النمل: 80]، {وما أنت بمسمع من في القبور} [فاطر: 22] يقول: حين تبوؤوا مقاعدهم من النار.
من تبع جنازة فله قيراط
عن نافع قال: حُدِّث ابن عمر أن أبا هريرة رضي الله عنهم يقول: «من تبع جنازة فله قيراط» فقال: أكثرَ أبو هريرة علينا، فصدَّقت يعني عائشة أبا هريرة، وقالت: سمعت رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم يقوله، فقال ابن عمر رضي الله عنهما: لقد فرَّطنا في قراريط كثيرة.
ما من ميت تصلي عليه أُمَّةٌ من المسلمين يبلغون مائة، كلهم يشفعون له، إلا شفعوا فيه
عن عائشة عن النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم قال: «ما من ميت تصلي عليه أُمَّةٌ من المسلمين يبلغون مائة، كلهم يشفعون له، إلا شفعوا فيه».
مُستريح ومُستَراح منه
عن أبي قتادة بن ربعي الأنصاري أنه كان يحدث أن رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم مُرَّ عليه بجنازة فقال: «مُستريح ومُستَراح منه» قالوا: يا رسول الله، ما المستريح والمستراح منه؟ قال: «العبد المؤمن يستريح من نصب الدنيا وأذاها إلى رحمة الله، والعبد الفاجر يستريح منه العباد والبلاد، والشجر والدواب».
أُتِيَ النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم برجل قتل نفسه بمشاقص فلم يُصَلِّ عليه
عن جابر بن سمرة قال: أُتِيَ النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم برجلٍ قَتَلَ نفسَه بمَشَاقِصَ، فلم يصلِّ عليه.
أما هو فقد جاءه اليقين، إني لأرجو له الخير من الله
عن أم العلاء قالت: طار لنا عثمان بن مظعون في السكنى، حين اقترعت الأنصار على سكنى المهاجرين، فاشتكى فمرَّضْناه حتى توفي، ثم جعلناه في أثوابه، فدخل علينا رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم، فقلت: رحمة الله عليك أبا السائب، فشهادتي عليك لقد أكرمك الله، قال: «وما يدريك» قلت: لا أدري والله، قال: «أما هو فقد جاءه اليقين، إني لأرجو له الخير من الله، والله ما أدري -وأنا رسول الله- ما يفعل بي ولا بكم» قالت أم العلاء: فوالله لا أزكي أحدا بعده، قالت: ورأيت لعثمان في النوم عينا تجري، فجئت رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم فذكرت ذلك له، فقال: «ذاك عمله يجري له».
المؤمن يموت بعرق الجبين
عن بريدة عن النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم أنه قال: «المؤمن يموت بعرق الجبين».
موت الفجأة أخذة أَسِفٍ
عن عُبيد بن خالد السلمي -رجل من أصحاب النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم- رفعه مرة ووقفه مرة: "موت الفَجْأة أَخْذَةُ أَسَفٍ".
Do not weep for my brother after this day
‘Abdullāh ibn Ja‘far (may Allah be pleased with him) reported that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) gave the family of Ja‘far a three-days respite. He then came to them and said: "Do not weep for my brother after this day." He then said: "Call for me the children of my brother." We were brought over to him as if we were (bereft) chicks. Then he said: "Call for me a barber." He then ordered him to shave our heads.
An-Nu‘mān ibn Bashīr (may Allah be pleased with him) reported: ‘Abdullāh ibn Rawāhah (may Allah be pleased with him) fell down unconscious, so his sister started crying. She said: "O my mountain! O so-and-so!" and went on calling him by his good qualities one by one. When he came to his senses, he said: "Whenever you said something, I was asked: 'Are you really so?'"
An-Nu‘mān ibn Bashīr (may Allah be pleased with him) reported: ‘Abdullāh ibn Rawāhah (may Allah be pleased with him) fell down unconscious, so his sister started crying. She said: "O my mountain! O so-and-so!" and went on calling him by his good qualities one by one. When he came to his senses, he said: "Whenever you said something, I was asked: 'Are you really so?'"
أن رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم حين توفي سجي ببُرْدٍ حِبَرَة
عن عائشة رضي الله عنها زوج النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم أخبرته: «أن رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم حين توفي سجي ببُرْدٍ حِبَرَة».
رأينا رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم قام فقمنا وقعد فقعدنا
عن علي قال: رأينا رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم قام فقمنا وقعد فقعدنا. يعني في الجنازة.
Verily, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) disavowed the Sāliqah (wailing woman), the Hāliqah (shaving woman), and the Shāqqah (woman tearing garment)
Abu Burdah ibn Abi Mūsa (may Allah be pleased with him) reported: Abu Mūsa was in such severe pain that he lost consciousness while his head was in the lap of a woman from his family, and he was unable to respond to her in any way. Upon regaining his consciousness, he said: I dissociate myself from whoever the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) dissociated himself from. Verily, the Messenger of Allah (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) disavowed the Sāliqah (wailing woman), the Hāliqah (shaving woman), and the Shāqqah (woman tearing garment).